When it comes to sexual fantasies, just about everyone has them—even if they don’t talk about them. Some people like to role play, and others like to play games in which the loser submits to the winner. When you’re able to let go of your fears and apprehensions, the possibilities are endless.
There are many common sexual fantasies as well as a variety of means of going after them. The more tactful your approach is, then the more likely you are to experience your wildest dreams! Continue reading to learn about some common sexual fantasies and how to pursue them.
1. Menage A Trois
One of the more common fantasies that sexually active adults have is to have a menage a trois, also known as a threesome. There is just something about getting swept up in a torrent of passion with two other lovers that many adults find tantalizing. Nearly 85% of men fantasize about having sex with two women.
Believe it or not, being in a relationship may actually increase your chances of getting to have a threesome. It all boils down to you and your partner being able to come to some sort of an understanding.
The key to getting your significant other on board with your desires is in your approach. In fact, your approach should be to let your partner be the first to broach the subject. You can turn something as simple as your lover complimenting another person’s appearance into a joke loaded with sexual innuendo. Say something light and tasteful yet suggestive enough to spark conversation.
If your partner doesn’t find your joke funny or doesn’t seem interested in that type of discussion, then don’t force the issue. Be honest about your fantasy without making it seem like a sales pitch. After all, just about everyone fantasizes.
2. Induce the Elusive Female Orgasm
The female orgasm is like the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow for many sexually active adventurists. Many lovers have even pondered the question, “Do women really have orgasms?” The answer is a resounding yes. But helping a woman to achieve one requires a genuine interest in her pleasure and a willingness to accept constructive criticism from her.
3. Deep Intimacy
When you’re sexually inactive or frustrated, you may find that your deepest sexual longing is just for deep human connection and intimacy. If you find yourself in a dating rut and feeling like you’re in serious need of sex with another person, then you should consider trying a sex doll.
The best thing about sex dolls is that you can get them customized to suit your preferences. Whether you like big breasts or small breasts, whether you like red hair or blonde, there’s a doll to suit your fancy. You can find a black sex doll or an Indian one. The only limit is your imagination.
4. Sex With Superhumans and Mythical Creatures
Don’t you love a good fantasy flick when a human falls in love with an elf or vampire? You ever wondered what it would be like to have sex with a superhuman or another mythical being? Well, no one’s discovered any werewolves or people with the strength of 100 men, but the internet has.
There are online games for adults that allow you to live out your deepest sexual desires vicariously through virtual reality. Most games allow you to create an avatar of yourself, and then you can slip off into a virtual world of sexual decadence.
5. Nonmonogamous Relationships
A common desire that seems to be gaining popularity is nonmonogamous relationships. More and more people are opting to have open relationships, swing, and have multiple committed partners.
When it comes to building any kind of relationship, the key is honesty. If you don’t desire to be in a monogamous relationship, then you shouldn’t lead yourself or anyone else on in lieu of the contrary.
When you’re honest about your sexual and relationship preferences, you open doors for communication and understanding. If you’re forthright from the beginning, then you’re much more likely to find the partner(s) you long for.